Heart-broken on a Valentine's day? Fret not!

Oh hello there! It's been quite a while... Well, before I begin any lovey-dovey Valentine's day-related post/s lemme reach out first to those who..er..are lonesome this day of hearts. Which lead me to..hmmm giving advice to those who have lost their lovers through whatever stup*d reason.

It may be like the end of the world but believe me! IT IS NOT. and will never be. So get up and stop the "walling" act and all the dramas you get from watching romantic movies. HAHAHA.

I've read a lot about how-to's in moving on from a broken relationship and here are some I learned:

1. Feel and savor the pain. I know, that is the saddest (and most depressing) thing to do BUT hey guess what, after savoring the pain and crying all the fluids out of your body, you'll feel better in a week or two. Magsasawa ka sa pain to the point of never wanting to try to feel (or even think) of it again!

2. STOP stalking in social media networks. PLEASE. Have mercy on yourself. If you see he/she is seeing/dating someone else already or you see that he's very happy and A O.K, you'll just feel jealous and pity yourself even more! Like, you'll feel soooo like a loser (even if you're not, of course!).

3. Mingle BUT never start a relationship as early as 1 month. Obviously, that's what we call rebound relationship. And in most cases, this never work out. You're lonely and you try to find someone who can fill-up the spaces left by your ex-lover. You're bored and you try to do the stuffs you're doing with your ex-lover with the 'new' prospect. And lastly, you just want someone who you can slap on your ex-lover's face, like a trophy you've won over a great competitor.

4. Try to lessen the grudge. Cursing and all will not bring you any good (or your ex-lover back). Hate and grudge will just blurr your mind from the correct decisions to make or take.

5. KILL (not the ex-lover) but all the hopes of getting back together. Not a single drop of hope, please! Because as long as you have a very small hope of him begging you to come back or second chance and all, you will never move on.

So there! Hope this helps! If I think of other how-to's, I'll post them here!